Tuesday, June 30, 2009

Honeymoon Recap, Part I


we left the rainy weather in boston and of course immediately there were issues. the zipper on abe's backpack broke at the airport. not a huge deal, and when i found out it was 10 years old i was kind of impressed that it even lasted so long. abe felt much differently about the situation, he'll be getting a new one asap.
Ready for takeoff! we slept like 2 hours the night before, we were just so excited and ready to go.


Our resort in Anguilla, the Cap Juluca greets it's guests with a bottle of champagne and snacks. i thought it was just us, but i heard lots of champagne bottles popping during the week so i guess we weren't all That special after all. however, it's an excellent touch. we were 100% satisfied with our hotel choice. it's very hard to tell from their website, but i am pretty sure that service and beachfront can't get any better than it was there. our luggage didn't make our layover from San Juan, and there is only 1 flight per day from San Juan to Anguilla so we had to wait till the following day for it to arrive. we had a feeling this could happen though, so we packed a day of clothing and other essentials in our carry on.
this is the outside of our villa. the doors just open up and let the ocean air in all day. in fact, there are no locks and keys. abe Hated this, but i didn't care at all. there was a safe for our money and passports and that's all that mattered to me. the beach we were on had no other resorts on it, the place was just ultra private. we really didn't interact with many people at all while we were there besides employees.
Obviously, i packed my new romper from American Apparel in my carry on!! i loved it, i know it's like a "you love it or hate it" item. this is right outside our villa. the little path goes right to the beach where they have really great lounge chairs with umbrellas set up and a bars lining the area. They had free water activities on the resort like kayaking, snorkling masks and flippers, and all sorts of other things like water skiing. we should have taken more advantage of this, but at the same time we really just wanted to lay on the chairs and soak in the sun.
this is abe's horrified face. the first night we were there the woman who checked us in told us there was going to be a seafood buffet on the beach in one of the restaurants, so we figured we'd try it out. you know low key, nothing fancy. so we walk in, and walk past a big table of asian people and go and sit down. suddenly we're in a staring contest with them...and what do you know, it was some of abe's family. they are everywhere! i'll talk about that more later, back to the buffet. well, we got there and the food wasn't really anything to write home about. it was good, but it didn't knock my socks off or anything and actually i ate more salad than anything else. they handed abe the bill, and they never told us how much the buffet would be. i was thinking maybe like $50/person or something. no no, it was $85/person!!! and from that moment on, we didn't eat at the resort very much. we got a lot of recommendations from people who traveled and lived there which turned out to be our savior! also in anguilla they add 15% service charge automatically, and they produce very little food on the island due to nutrient lacking soil so almost everything is imported which makes things pricey. i'm ok with that, especially since we were able to find excellent food at excellent (for anguilla) prices.

The best part about cap juluca is that although the resort is somewhat large since it runs along the beach, they give everyone a solar golf cart to drive around in. they're just parked all over the place and you can just look for one and jump and in go. they drive on the left side which even in a golf cart is a little intimidating and horrifying at times, but i really enjoyed it!! several times one of us would have to yell out, while going around a sharp corner: you almost lost your wife/husband! it was super duper fun driving those things, i wish i could have one at home, and really how efficient and green!

more honeymoon fun to come...

Monday, June 29, 2009

Small honeymoon recap...

Today is our last day -technically our last hours in Anguilla. This was the most perfect honeymoon location! I know everyone thinks that their honeymoon is in the best place, but I am quite judgemental about certain things, and this place passed all my tests. Water - crystal clear and deep aqua: check. Villas - comfortable and totally private: check. Access to solar golf carts to drive around the property: Best Thing Ever, Check. The island in general - pretty, quaint, and with the friendliest people in the world: check. Nice and warm during the day, nice and cool at night, always with an island breeze of course. We were able to visit lots of restaurants, and i'll have some reviews on those later...but we went to: Smokeys, Picante, Mangoes, Pimms, Blue, Tasty's, and Da Vida. There were many more that we wanted to try, but there are only so many meals in a week. We ate a free breakfast on our patio only feet from the ocean every morning and each afternoon we took a little siesta before dinner. We went on a island boat tour with stops for snorkeling on the reefs. This was my favorite part, the snorkeling was really great and I used to have a great fear of open water, but not here. Abe on the other hand had a few issues, but he was able to pull it together in the end and snorkel along with me. There are lots of very pretty little fish, bigger ugly fish, and I saw an eel and almost pissed myself. I did one of those snorkel screams where nobody can really hear you. Apparently, I only wanted to see little cute things and not anything that could be aggressive. On one of our last dinners, we went to Pimms and it sits right on a bed of coral so we could see right into the ocean during our meal. We saw 2 stingrays and a barracuda named Jonathan. It was the most exciting meal that I've ever had! I'll have a more in depth post when we get back with photos. Hopefully our flight from Anguilla to San Juan gets out today, it had been cancelled a lot earlier this week.

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Quick Wedding Recap!

And now we're off to Anguilla!!

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A little teaser.


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Friday, June 19, 2009

24 hours!

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How many idiots does it take

We are picking up another pair of tux pants for abe. The day before the wedding. One hour before we need to head out. Annoying man. We are feeling the stress.



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Thursday, June 18, 2009

Tart

The sticker on my green apple says "TART". isn't that funny? i eat these all the time, but i don't think i've ever noticed a Tart sticker before. interesting, i mean i guess you wouldn't know they were tart unless they told you...or you tasted one....

This is my last day in the office. i cannot wait. i'm getting a mani/pedi after work and doing some errands then maybe doing a wedding craft, and then i'm just going to try and relax and not think about all the chaos around the corner. and it really will be total chaos, that's what happens when there are too many people asking me questions (i get so Fing annoyed mainly because i hate repeating myself) and too many cooks in the kitchen. enough already. just give me the freakin marriage certificate so i can go on our honeymoon.

am i nervous?
Yes. i'm nervous about everything except marriage, and having abe with me forever. i don't have faith in many things, but i do have faith in us being together for the long haul.

Am i going to cry?
No. but i'm worried that if abe cries that i might laugh at him in front of everyone. because he said to me the other night, "i don't cry... I Ball, chest heaving cry" so if that happens, then i probably will just lose it. and i will probably look around encouraging everyone to join me. because...maybe it will make him stop.

Is it going to rain?
Most likely but my hopes are that it will lighten up enough at some point for us to take some photos outside. that's my best case scenario. my worse case scenario is pouring rain, everything indoors, no chance of anything outside.

Do i have any wedding planning regrets?
I wish that i had managed my time better so that i could have gotten more help. i felt totally and completely consumed by things i could have reached out for, but due to time and location of people it just didn't work. but if i had done these things sooner, like favors, i would have been able to have assistance. i also regret the facial that i got two months ago at G2o. my face has not recovered yet. thanks. i also kind of wish that i had gotten a prescription for xanax so i wouldn't have lost so much sleep over these past two weeks. also, i think we overspent on the venue. i would recommend not doing that.

Things I would highly recommend:
taking care of your skin starting 1 year ahead of your wedding date, finding a dermatologist that you really believe in. finding a class like my bootcamp to really help you burn stress and burn fat, you will thank yourself later even if you are already the hotness. after you buy your wedding dress - never look at another dress ever anywhere again. the grass is always greener people.

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

surprises can sometimes be nice

i had a super shitty day today.  i don't even want to get into it, but it's just a big pile of annoying sprinkled with Fugly Idiots.  i was so unhappy by the time i got to my class at the gym that my instructor asked me if i was ok.  i mean really.  yeah i'm fine, i'm just sour pal!  i got out of my class and got to the bus stop.  i decided to wait a few minutes for the bus instead of walking the 10-15 minutes home with my heavy bag.  i'm standing there, basically twiddling my thumbs (of course i forgot my blackberry today at home), and who do i see?  abe drives right by me.  i was standing there 6 inches from the road in a fluorescent pink coat on, and he didn't see me as i stuck my neck out and angrily stared at him in the car going right by me.  oddly enough, i still got into our front door before him.  later, after i confronted him about leaving me on the curb in his wind, he was quite apologetic.  and all i wanted to do was eat something anyways.  i was so hungry.  i was so busy, that i barely ate anything all day so i got home at 7:45 and started to cook dinner.  i was completely out of sorts, and totally miserable.  to cheer me up, abe gave me a wedding gift, which i knew he planned on getting me a gift of some kind, but i didn't expect to get anything today or tomorrow even.  you freaking bet it cheered me up, i love it.  it's a surprise : )

something else surprising -  abe took out a tiny ice cream cup from the freezer, and stuck it in the microwave.  i've honestly, never ever ever seen anyone microwave ice cream before.  i totally understand the concept, but i've just never seen it done before.  it kind of made me squirm... it seemed all wrong.

something surprisingly funny - i emailed my mom yesterday.  it said: "Fudge!  we forgot to take 5 bags home with us.  i'll get them from you on friday".  today she writes back: where is the fudge, in the bags?  and i wrote back: no, there's no fudge.  and she writes back: where is it?  so then i was compelled to call her and explain that i used Fudge instead of the F-word.  and she was like: ooohh!  so there's no fudge?  this was actually far too painful for me to even chuckle a little bit. 


Monday, June 15, 2009

Cookies from argentina

these cookies came home from argentina and now they are being awkwardly inserted into abe's mouth.  that is how he eats each one strangely enough.  for some reason he really thought that i would love them.  i'm not sure why though, i guess they are kind of cute...but not really my cup of tea.  however cookies are a pretty fun thing to get, as opposed to say...ants or poison ivy.

today, abe brought home forms for me to sign so i can leave my benefits and join his.  it's really exciting for me.  mine are pretty much the equivalent of puke soup.  you want to go to the doctor, then get ready to for a big copay, oh you wanted to see a dermatologist then you should take out a loan to do so.  i can't wait, i'm going to make sure that i get all the richness that they are willing to offer me, including $0 Rx copays.  that is like heaven.  that is like something out of a rich company playbook, and i can't wait to roll around in that.


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weather update


it's going to rain on saturday. not only is it going to rain on saturday but it is probably going to rain thursday through monday. this totally sucks.

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Sunday Sunday



Sneak peek at our programs.  i know, they're like the super cutest, and i know it's a little more than just a sneak peek but honestly i don't care.  it took me freakin forever to make these stupid things, so i want to show off the awesome.  i had abe cutting and hole punching and tying ribbons until almost 1am, and it took me almost all week to get the design finished.  and really there isn't much special about it, but the longer you stare at something the more you want it to work better somehow.  anyways, it's done, and they're being sent off today to the hands of my parents.

Also, Jenny the houseplant got transported into a bigger home yesterday.  she's been doing really poorly and i really try and tend to her every need, so abe thought maybe she had outgrown her little pot.  it's pretty exciting for her, and for me to not have to look at a half dead plant everyday.  it was getting kind of depressing, and you start to feel like you've failed it somehow.  i was also pretty impressed that abe was able to transport her without dropping soil all over the place, it was quick and tidy.

And lastly, this is abe really Feeling the victory of finishing all our wedding crafts in a timely manner.  we also picked up a birthday gift, a baby gift, my wedding dress, and scheduled a day-after brunch for the family.  all we have left are a few little things that can be taken care of leisurely this week.  i can almost feel the end of the panda-monium, almost, not quite.  this week abe has two tasks, and i have to finish prepping for the honeymoon! 

Saturday, June 13, 2009

more pandamonium

last night, we did something really spine-tingling-awesome. for the first time in 2.5 years, we took a walk to JP Licks and got ice cream late on a friday night.  well actually i got raspberry sherbert, and abe got a banana frappe, but you know there were rainbow sprinkles involved.  it was pretty exciting, and it was so nice to take a break from doing wedding crafts.  you would think that i'd go there more often because it's about 5 minutes away but i just never thought about it.  we actually didn't get much accomplished last night at all in the craft department, we just kept running into road blocks.  like our printer ran out of black ink, stupid technology!  we got the escort card board done, and that's it!  in like 3 hours, we only got one thing done.  hopefully today is a little bit more productive, but the weather is sooooo nice.  all i want to do is go for a bike ride and pop a little wheeley.  maybe i'll get to do one this weekend at some point...  

Friday, June 12, 2009

Weather and Stuff

So it still predicts rain for our day, however, 40% chance is much better than 60% chance so we are moving in the right direction. you know not to become completely obsessive over checking the weather every moment of my day...

abe is back from his work trip, so i have an extra set of hands around the house to help out with manual labor. to me this is great, to him, this is going to totally suck. tonight we need to do the programs, name cards, and name card board. tomorrow we need to pick up my dress at the store, pick up his groomsmen gifts, a birthday gift, and any other miscellaneous type stuff that we may have forgotten, and sunday we need to bring just about everything to my parents house (favors, gift baggies, napkins, dresses, cake topper, etc.) 8 days. it's only 8 days away. oh god. i don't feel like i'm handling this all very well. at work they asked me if i'd like a cake to celebrate my wedding and i said: NO!! i can't possibly deal with another uncomfortable moment, although i thanked them for the thought. i just can't do it. i'd just rather not right now.

but i must ask. WTF is with Boyfriend jeans?? why would any woman want to wear pants that totally made them look fat and sloppy? it makes no sense to me, but they are everywhere right now and they are not cheap either. i think that trend is heinous! this is coming from a girl who bought a cotton romper and can't wait to wear it. it is super cute guys, i swear, and i will not wear it with heels. i think that is the biggest mistake you can make with them.

Thursday, June 11, 2009

10-day forecast

NOOOO!!!
This really stresses me out. i want no-rain more than anything right now. everyone please think about: sun sun sun!!

Hello

i went to H&M to buy some onesies for our new niece...and although i did find some, i also found these hello kitty hair clips and hair elastics. and yes, i plan on wearing these to the gym : )



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Wednesday, June 10, 2009

it's a celebration bitches

i spent 9 or 10 hours stuffing all my favors...and they are D-O-N-E.  Mother Effing Done Wooo.  i'm a lot happier now, you know except for the fact that i spent all those hours just on one project so inefficiently and that's so not me.  i'm usually such a meticulous planner, but right now i'm just up to my eyeballs.  i would like to thank So You Think You Can Dance for all their support, and just for being on tv so often.  i would also like to thank mary murphy for admitting to botox on national television and causing me to almost cut my finger off, it was sort of hilarious, my finger is still here thank goodness.  Randi and Kayla are my fav. girls and kopono and evan are my fav. boys.  and now i'm totally sucked into this for the long haul!!    i mean i totally love that show anyways.  and now i'm never going to think about favors ever again.

the bookworm

i've started making a pile in a corner of my bedroom of honeymoon things that i don't want to forget. and what i'm really excited about is being able to sit on the beach and read a book! i haven't had time to read any books recently and i'm very much missing it. so what books have i packed?: The History of Love by Nicole Krauss, it seems everyone is reading this right now...or all the bloggers that i follow anyways, City of Bones by Cassandra Clare - it's young adult and very stephanie meyer, and then hopefully My Sister's Keeper by Jodi Picoult. i think it's a nice variety of light reading and i hope to finish atleast 2 out of the 3 while on vacation. - i'm a fast reader. i'm really excited just thinking about turning those crisp pages while i hold the book 3 inches from my face... and in this fantasy, i'm perched under a straw umbrella drinking from a coconut.

For the record - to me, "light reading" is what i consider to be something where my brain doesn't need to work in order to get through it and after reading it, i don't feel enriched. light reading= chick lit, young adult, the devil wears prada, sophie kinsella, etc. there's nothing wrong with the lighter fare, but as a whole, i generally try to stay away from it.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

can't focus

i am having a really miserable day/week. i'm way overtired, way over worked, and doing way too many stupid things. you're well aware of my giant list of stupid things that i have to do at home for the wedding (favors, programs, cards, gift bags, name cards, crafts crafts crafts, organizing, digging out of the insane piles of junk), but during the day....they pretty much triple. i don't even want to get into it really, but my 9-5 is moving into a new space about two weeks after we get back from the honeymoon so things are pretty chaotic right now...it might even be Pandemonium. - just saying. but anyways, i'm finding it really hard to focus. my body might even be shutting down, i'm not sure yet, but i do know i feel like total shit and i'm not at all sick. my body is just not at all happy right now, and i just want to tell it: i'm not happy either pal but just stay with me, anguilla is so close!!

Monday, June 8, 2009

My Hero

This is my future husband. He is also the Guitar Hero Champion of his company. he beat out 90something other people to become top dog. This happened about a month ago, and at the time i didn't think it was all that cool, but now it's kind of hilarious that i have a picture to see how cool it really was. or was it? i'm not really sure yet. i am sure that lanyard makes it look even less cool, but those jeans make it look even more cool so it's kind of balanced out. and i have to say that i've never beaten out 90+ people doing anything besides athletics, so i'm not sure what it feels like to hold a plastic guitar over your head in supreme victory. i'm not sure that he did that, but i know that i would if i won.

Sunday, June 7, 2009

sneek peek...

this is a sneak peek into our favors.  i think they are the cutest things ever but they are real pains in the ass to make.  i spent a ridiculous amount of hours on them today stupidly thinking it would only take 2 hours from start to finish.  i don't want to give away the surprise, but there were multiple steps per box.  after 4 hours, i had only completed half.  you'll just have to wait and see what is inside, and it might be worth it, personally i think it was worth it...but i bet this is one of those things where i could have cut some corners to make it easier on myself.  oh well, at least i finished half for now and my goal is to do a bunch each night this week to get them done and move onto the gift baggies.  at this point in time i'm getting really burnt out.  i was assembling the boxes and watching Rachel Getting Married, which is actually Not a funny wedding movie as i thought...why did i think that?!  it's actually the opposite of that.  it's a dark and deeply sad movie about a girl who's addictions have ruined her family relationships.  it was slow, dreary, and long, and it was pretty sad.  it also made me want to light up a cigarette, ann hathaway just smokes like a chimney the entire 2 hours. this was not the right movie to be watching today!  i can't wait to drop this one back in the mailbox and get something a little bit more cheerful this week so i can continue to assemble and stuff in a better mood.

a whole new face


Laura Mercier's loose setting powder in translucent $34 for 1 ounce.  i had read a few people talk about how good this powder was, but i was like whatever powder is powder.  well no it's not actually.  i really loved this powder product.  it kept my face nice and matte all day, and it kept my makeup on nicely.  it really was translucent too, i thought that maybe my darker skin tone might not work well with this, but it blended right in.  it is probably 10 times better than the bare escentuals mineral veil, and you get more of it.  the mineral veil is pretty good, but if i blotted my face after a few hours i could see makeup come off, but not with the laura mercier powder:  nothing came off.  i was really impressed with this product!  it was silky smooth, and nice and light, but it did exactly what it was supposed to do and i like when things are true to their word.
Smashbox Camera Ready Full Coverage Foundation UVA/UVB SPF 15  $38
i have a bit of a crush on smashbox products after trying out their primer and concealer.  at this point it sounds like i wear a ton of makeup and might even be a drag queen, but don't worry, i'm just a little lady with really troubled skin and a thirst for perfection.  anyways, i LOVED this foundation, it went on nice and light and you could layer and built it for more coverage or you could just do a quick sweep to keep it light and natural.  it blended perfectly with my skin color, which is something i've always found very challenging.  in fact, i tend to wear foundation/powder that is too dark but i figure it's better to go too dark than too light right?  with this color i really didn't have to settle, i found one that was right on.  when i put the laura mercier setting powder on top for a full day and night, i was totally a changed woman.  i threw my bare escentuals to the back of my drawer, and put these two things into my makeup bag.  bare escentuals claims to be good for your skin and to improve things, but they haven't improved anything in my opinion so i've given up on them and moved on to greener pastures.  i just feel better in this makeup, more like myself actually.  


laura mercier's loose setting powder   A
smashbox camera ready full coverage foundation A

Saturday, June 6, 2009

Celebation!

today my friends I put on my skinny jeans... And they fit. I haven't put these on in two years and don't think I haven't tried. I didn't buy designer jeans to watch them collect dust. Its a funny thing to me because the scale hasn't budged at all and so during my journey to fitness I just kept thinking that I was doing something wrong. Well I don't think that I was after all. Progress was slower than I imagined but this is a much easier way to measure success. Today I fit into the pants that haven't seen my ass in years and I celebrated with a berryline yogurt with mochi and gummi bears!! F yeah.



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Friday, June 5, 2009

Hold the Freaking Phone

well if you haven't noticed, i have a really intense crush on tory burch and her T logo. are those elephants on that zip around continental wallet ($215)? yeah, it's elephants! i would say that this wallet is not perfect, because red is not my color, i prefer yellow or pastels. i don't think i own any red actually, but i'm just really surprised at how much i've seen elephants lately. i thought i was unique in my total obsession, but i guess not. Havianas also has a new pair of flip flops in elephant print for $30.95:
Next up, Lancome has a bronzer with an elephant printed onto the powder. i think this is gorgeous, but i never use bronzer, so i wouldn't buy this product. if you want to buy it though, it's $36.50 and it would be something in your handbag that's super cute to look at.


I should have said Yes

on most fridays i get myself an iced coffee before work, so today, i waited in a really long line at DD. i just figured that it's longer on fridays. i got up to the front and i ordered my medium iced with skim and sugar, and then he said: today, you get a free donut with a drink order!! what did i do? i stared longingly at the jelly donut that was staring longingly back at me, and i probably even had that wide eyed "i'm going to eat you sucker" expression on my face. it took me about three seconds of reasoning before i decided against it. i mean i seriously love jelly donuts, but i just couldn't justify splurging on that much sugar right now. and so i said no, and took my coffee, and the guy behind me goes: i'll have a jelly donut. i could have punched him right in the face. that was MY jelly donut. the early bird catches the worm, and that was just not me today.

Thursday, June 4, 2009

breathing is good.

As you may remember at my first Final dress fitting, things did not go well. they in fact went very poorly to the point of tears. well my friends, today's Real final dress fitting went without a hitch. my wedding dress fits me perfectly and it really does look as i had imagined it...and yeah i looked Really Effing Good. I'd give myself a diamond ring too. i'm totally happy with it. and i'm also really happy with bootcamp now. i do need to work on my posture still though, i'm constantly slouching. but moving on...abe is picking up our marriage certificate today this afternoon, and our seating chart is 99% done, and i picked up new makeup to test out - which is always exhilarating.

Stila liquid eyeliner...and more

I have used several really good liquid eyeliners in the past, but what it seems to come down to is the shade of black and the applicator. this one is a very rich black with no reflection, which i was having a problem with before and also it has a soft tip applicator instead of a bristle brush which gave a cleaner line. having a metallic reflection just makes it look extra fake, and even though i know i'm wearing makeup and everyone else knows, i'd prefer it to hint at the natural. this product is $16 and is super tiny, it's probably the size of a chapstick so it fit nicely in my makeup bag. i liked it, and i would recommend it. previous to this, i tried Dior's liquid eyeliner ("style liner") but it is $31 (too much!) and very hard to manipulate although the formula is quite nice. the brush is just too difficult to use for the average bear. it kept getting all mixed into my eyelashes creating really horrible lines and smudging. i frequently use a gel eyeliner that comes in a little pot and i apply it with a little brush, by shiseido, although most brands are now making this same exact thing. they all boast staying power, and it's easy to go from natural to dramatic. but it does take more than 10 seconds to apply, and i like to get ready in like 10 minutes hair and makeup so it's not something i find the time to use on most days, but it's pretty nice ($26).

Stila eyeliner A-
Shiseido gel eyeliner B+
Dior Style Liner C

Wednesday, June 3, 2009

guard your loins

i think the stress is starting to get to me.  i've been super exhausted and feeling pretty crappy, but i know i'm not sick... i think i'm just run down.  today i went to the gym to try and get some of my energy back, but i don't think it helped too much.  i pooped out pretty fast, but i signed up for a one-time bootcamp session on saturday.  why did i do that!  well they cancelled the class i normally take on saturdays (and totally love) and decided to do a bootcamp class to raise money for their scholarship fund.  yadda yadda, that's great, i can't believe they cancelled my class!  so i felt compelled to do the next best thing, which would be sign up for an hour of total hell....that was probably a poor decision.  i walked out of the gym, and there was a line of like 8 people for emack and bolios ice cream.  i wanted to rip the heads off all those people, and i really don't know why, they certainly didn't do anything wrong besides eat something that i cannot.  i felt violated.  i really really wanted an ice cream cone!  1.  i can't eat ice cream.  and 2.  i don't know why i even wanted it.  i am totally starting to lose it.  and just in time, my final dress fitting is tomorrow.

Tuesday, June 2, 2009

Alize Tote

Tory Burch Alize Tote aka A Little Piece of Heaven: $565. I Love this bag, but i do not love $565 for a tote. but i love how it looks so modern prep school. if i were in school right now, this would be my book bag!! i don't watch gossip girl, but i bet they would use this at their fancy pants manhattan prep school. it's freaking classic.

update....18 days till...AH!! 18 DAYS!

we applied for our marriage license last night at cambridge city hall. for some reason i thought it would have some kind of really significant type of feeling to it, but it was just filling out some paper work and it's not like we left with anything so it felt kind of like a quick errand. it went pretty smoothly though, hopefully when we get it back on thursday it will come back perfect! and then i'm kind of not sure how i go about changing my middle name after that...oh well, i'll figure that out later.

i got some really cute things yesterday at american eagle! i know they're kind of tweeny sometimes but i found a ruffle basic black tube top for $6, a floral coverup/tube dress for $11, and a purple and cream floral sundress for $30. i couldn't really turn down those bargains. they are all honeymoon items, and i think i did really well for myself there! i think i'm basically all done with my shopping for the honeymoon, now it's abe's turn to outfit himself.

since we need to jump on a plane soon, this is perhaps the most horrifying news i've heard in a long time. i'm totally not afraid of flying, and most turbulence doesn't bother me at all even in little propeller planes. but i really don't like the idea of a plane completely going missing, i mean this is not Lost where we'd end up on some really cool island, this is reality and when you go missing - you are probably dead. it's really bad news, that's for sure.

So 18 days till we get married. i'm not prepared. i have a list a mile long and i am not in the least bit happy about it. i hate wedding planning. i can't wait to step foot into the airport knowing that all our family commitments are done with!

Monday, June 1, 2009

my friend slebby

so my friend Slebby had the most hilarious story for me this weekend. she went out friday night with some friends and got really hammered. she made it home and went to bed, and woke up to use the bathroom. so she gets up, walks over to her red handbag, opens it up, and pees in it. then she gets back into bed and thinks:....did i really just pee in my purse?... and goes back to sleep. in the morning, she remembers doing it, and opens her handbag to see if it was a dream or if it really happened. well it really happened, an luckily her phone was not in there! i never do anything like that, so i always get a huge kick out of her stories. i quit hard alcohol a long time ago because i tend to get a little out of control, but i've never peed in a place that wasn't the toilet, a red plastic cup, the street, or the woods. to me, those are all acceptable places...